Sibling Hand-Me-Downs: What’s Safe to Reuse for Baby Number 2 and What’s Not

Welcoming a second child often brings a wave of excitement—and a healthy dose of practicality. Many parents look at the baby gear they used with their first child and wonder, “Can we use this again?”. Reusing items not only saves money but also helps reduce waste. That said, not everything should be passed down. Safety standards change. Materials wear out. And babies, of course, have their own unique needs.

Here’s a guide to help you decide what’s safe to reuse, what should be replaced, and when to draw the line between sentimental and sensible.

Safe to Reuse: These Items Usually Hold Up Well

1. Baby Clothes

Most baby clothes are safe to pass down, especially if they’re still in good condition. Cotton onesies, swaddles, socks, and sleepers wash well and often look new even after months of use. Just check for:

  • Loose threads or buttons

  • Fraying edges

  • Stretched out elastic

Give clothes a thorough wash in gentle detergent, and you’re good to go. If you're dealing with hand-knit items, inspect carefully for any yarn thinning or holes. Some pieces may be better suited for keepsakes rather than daily use. Clothes made from bamboo fabric also tend to hold up beautifully and feel incredibly soft on baby skin.

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2. Hard Toys (Without Electronics)

Plastic or wooden toys that don’t have small detachable parts or batteries are usually safe. Wash or sanitise them properly, and inspect for cracks or sharp edges. Avoid passing down anything that has been glued or repaired before, especially around sharp corners or joints. Toys made of unfinished wood may need sanding and resealing to ensure splinter-free use.

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3. Books

Unless they’re torn or chewed on, board books and picture books are perfect for reuse. Wipe down the covers and flip through the pages to make sure there’s no mould or heavy damage. Hardcover books with paper pages might need gentle dusting, and a quick check for scribbles or rips can go a long way. Books that include flaps or pop-ups may need repair, but simple storybooks tend to last through multiple kids.

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4. High Chairs (With Up-to-Date Safety Standards)

If your high chair hasn’t been recalled and meets current safety regulations, it can be reused. Check the straps, buckles, and tray locking mechanisms to ensure everything is still secure. Make sure the chair still stands level and doesn’t wobble when the baby moves around in it. If the cover is torn or stained, look into purchasing replacement cushions or covers from the manufacturer.

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5. Nursery Furniture

Dressers, rocking chairs, changing tables, and storage units age well and can often be repurposed or refreshed with a bit of love. Always check for loose screws or wobbly parts. If the furniture has been stored away, properly clean it and tighten all joints before setting it up again. Some families even enjoy repainting or refinishing furniture to give it a fresh look for baby number two.

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6. Soft Fabric Items (With Caution)

Items like blankets, burp cloths, and nursing covers can be reused if they’re free from tears and deep stains. Just ensure they’re washed and fully dry before storing. If items smell musty or have been stored long-term, add a second rinse or a vinegar soak to refresh them. Sun-drying can also help naturally lift stains and remove odours.

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Think Twice: Items That Might Be Risky

1. Baby Cots

Safety standards for baby cots have changed significantly over the years. Drop-side cots, for example, are now considered unsafe. If your old cot was bought more than 10 years ago, it’s best to replace it. Also, check that the slats are no more than 6 cm apart and that the mattress fits snugly. Ensure the frame is not warped or missing screws. A cotbed that seems wobbly, even slightly, is not worth the risk.

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2. Car Seats

This one’s tricky. Car seats have expiration dates for a reason. The plastic weakens over time, and safety regulations are constantly updated. If your car seat has been in an accident or is more than 5–7 years old, don’t reuse it. And never accept a secondhand seat unless you trust its full history. Look up the make and model online to confirm its lifespan. Always check that the harness clicks smoothly and the padding isn’t degraded.

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3. Baby Bottles and Nipples

While bottles may look fine on the outside, repeated sterilisation can break down the plastic over time. Nipples should always be replaced. If you do reuse bottles, inspect them for scratches or cloudy discolouration and pair them with new teats. Sterilise them before use and inspect regularly for signs of wear. Also ensure the caps and rings still screw on tightly.

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4. Breast Pumps

Manual and electric breast pumps can often be reused if they are closed-system models. Open-system pumps may allow milk to backflow into the motor, which poses a hygiene risk. Replace all soft parts like tubing, flanges, and valves. Consider purchasing a new set of accessories if yours look discoloured or brittle. If in doubt, many brands sell affordable replacement kits to refresh your pump for the next baby.

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5. Pacifiers and Teethers

These items go straight into your baby’s mouth and can degrade faster than expected. Even if they look clean, it’s safest to get new ones. Rubber can become brittle, and unseen bacteria can linger. For teethers, check for any bite marks or internal leaks, especially for gel-filled options. Silicone options are more durable and easier to sanitise.

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6. Baby Loungers and Pods

If you used a baby lounger or pod for the first time, check that it hasn’t lost its shape or firmness. Many loungers are no longer recommended for unsupervised sleep. If you still choose to use one, do so only under full adult supervision during awake time. Some parents now opt for firm play mats instead, which offer a safer space for tummy time.

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7. Soft Toys and Stuffed Animals

Plush toys can collect dust, mites, and allergens over time. Only keep the ones that are easy to wash and still in excellent condition. Run them through a warm wash cycle and tumble dry thoroughly before handing them over to baby number two. Watch for loose seams or plastic eyes that could come off.

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Replace These: Items You Shouldn’t Reuse

1. Mattresses

Used crib mattresses often lose their firmness, which is a major safety concern. A soft or sagging mattress increases the risk of suffocation. Always buy a new mattress for your newborn. Look for ones with firm support, breathable covers, and a snug fit inside the crib frame. A new mattress ensures optimal hygiene and support.

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2. Shoes

Baby shoes mould to the shape of the original wearer’s feet. Reusing them can lead to discomfort or improper foot development. Socks and soft booties are an exception. Stick to new or gently worn shoes with flexible soles and a proper fit. Even if they look cute, old shoes can negatively impact walking patterns.

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3. Bottle Sterilisers (If They Show Wear)

Older sterilisers might not work as efficiently and can harbour a buildup. If you notice rust, discolouration, or residue, it’s safer to upgrade. Newer models often include features like auto shut-off and larger capacity, which can be more convenient for busy households. Clean your steriliser regularly to avoid scaling.

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4. Teething Rings with Liquid Inside

Some older teething toys are filled with liquid and can break open with use. These are better left out. Opt for solid silicone teethers or those that can be cooled safely in the fridge. Look for BPA-free labels and ensure they can be cleaned thoroughly.

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Final Tips Before You Reuse

  • Check for Recalls: Search the item’s brand and model on safety recall databases before reuse.

  • Sanitise Thoroughly: Whether it’s fabric or plastic, a deep clean is essential.

  • Inspect Closely: Look for signs of wear, missing parts, or anything that feels “off”.

  • Don’t Force It: If something feels unsafe, don’t hold on to it out of guilt or nostalgia.

  • Store Smartly: Keep items in sealed containers, away from damp areas or direct sunlight. Avoid storing anything in plastic bags that could trap moisture.

  • Document What You Store: Label storage bins with contents and dates. This helps you plan ahead and know what needs replacing down the line.

  • Follow Your Gut: You know what feels right. If you’re unsure about something, it’s better to replace it than risk your baby’s safety.

A Gentle Word for Sentimental Parents

It’s natural to want to hold onto items that carry sweet memories. That tiny sleepsuit from your firstborn? Frame it or tuck it into a keepsake box. Some things are meant to be cherished—just not reused. It doesn’t make you any less of a loving parent if you choose new items for your second baby. In fact, it shows care and intention.

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